This is a Thankfulness Tree.
I saw it a few years ago on Pinterest, and I knew I wanted to make one. Fall is a season of “getting” in our family. My son has a September birthday, so of course he gets presents. Then it’s on to Halloween and church Harvest Fests when he gets tons of candy. Then Christmas when he gets presents again. Oh, and there’s a blip of a day in there where we’re supposed to be thankful. I saw this tree as a way to possibly turn it around.
It’s an easy project – use large paper or grocery bags and tape them to your wall to create a trunk. It doesn’t have to be fancy or even pretty! This year mine kind of looks like a pencil with hands. Don’t worry about it. The trunk will soon be covered by construction paper leaves. Each day everyone in the family writes something they’re thankful for on a leaf and sticks it on the tree. We try to do it right after dinner every night.
I keep a stock of leaves, pens, and tape right next to the tree, so they’re always handy. All those notices that come home from church and school on fall-colored paper are great to recycle into leaves for your tree. My first year I cut out really fancy maple leaves. The next year I realized how much easier it is to do oval-shaped leaves! I usually get about a dozen from a sheet of paper. That’s large enough to write on, even for kids with big handwriting. By the way, don’t correct your kids’ spelling. For me it’s more important that Creed be thankful than that he spells “swim lessens” correctly.
We have our friends and guests write on leaves too. And definitely everyone at the Thanksgiving table. When I posted the first picture of our tree on Facebook this year, a friend of mine texted immediately to ask me to write a leaf for her that says, “We’re thankful for the Roemers!” It’s fun to see what friends add, to hear what they value. This is a non-judgmental activity too. Just because one night one of us is thankful for God’s love and another for chicken soup, doesn’t make one person better than the other. Have grace with one another and remember that when you have a cold, there’s nothing as comforting as chicken soup!
I usually make our tree on November 1, but this year I couldn’t wait. I made it on Oct 25. Partly I want something besides Halloween in my life. Partly because I had time that day. Mostly because we need to re-focus again. In the midst of the busy-ness and bills, it’s amazing how many things we really can be thankful for. Especially the brand new dishwasher that we got to buy this week!
So whether you fill in your leaves at breakfast or dinner or random times through the day, focus your thoughts on God, who is the provider of all good things in our lives, and be thankful throughout this entire season.